Next to me was my neighbor, Brenda. She was an accomplished manager, having spent the last few years at QVC managing the quality assurance process with at least a hundred people under her charge. She and her husband had decided she should stay home for a few years to get their kids on the right path. These were the same kids that were running around, screaming with mine. I leaned over and asked her what was keeping her from entering the workforce. Without looking up, she pointed at the kids and sipped her coffee.
My first stroke of brilliance—which I’ve only had two—was to make her an offer to work with me from the time the bus left in the morning until the time it returned in the afternoon. This time, she looked up and said yes. I officially made the foray into the “mom market.”
That was more than 19 years ago. What started as just a bookkeeping position slowly grew into a role as the president of MainSpring to the current chief financial officer (CFO). Even still, her role in the firm has moved from a simple job description to a title—one that illustrates what she represents rather than just what she does. Hiring her has since allowed me to focus on what I do best. Delegation has never felt so freeing.
According to the Harvard Business Review, multitasking causes a productivity loss of 25 percent for an individual and anywhere from 50 to 75 percent for an organization [1]. Imagine if you could eliminate your to-do list for an entire facet of your company by handing it over to your “Brenda.” Imagine the value that you’ve just created for your company by removing yourself as a logjam for your firm.
I belong to a peer group and, when searching for the productivity and company value answers, we always talk about "who is your ‘Brenda’?" or "are you looking for your ‘Brenda’?" Brenda is my right-hand on this journey called MainSpring, and I consider myself incredibly lucky to have her.
A “Brenda” is someone who is capable of doing all of the things that you are not good at. It's simple—if you are technical, she is sales. If you are visionary, she is operational. She isn't just your operations manager; a “Brenda” is your operations. She is the yin to your yang, and she helps rid you of the many functional requirements of your job so that you can focus on your business as a whole.
My “Brenda” taught me how to delegate—not to simply assign tasks, but to truly release authority into her capable hands. There were two distinct times I remember talking to her in the conference room, likely micromanaging her. Afterward, we met and she told me that the envelope in her hand was her resignation. She wanted to make me understand that my job wasn’t to focus on managing tasks, but larger goals. I acquiesced, and the envelopes were no longer necessary.
If you aren't willing to give your “Brenda” the authority and responsibility, then she will not want to continue working with you. This was probably my biggest lesson, and it continues to be reinforced today. You want your “Brenda” to stake her claim on her job, her role, and her turf. And with respect, she will.
So when is the best time to find your “Brenda”? Twenty years ago. When is the second best time? Today.
Late last year, our “Brenda” moved on from the position of president and COO to CFO. Before she switched positions, she found her “Brenda.” We call him Tom, our new president and COO.
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[1] Gupta, S. (2012, May 12). How Employers can make us stop multitasking. Harvard Business Review. Retrieved from https://hbr.org/2012/05/how-employers-can-make-us-stop